I think you are acting like a man who give to your loved one flowers, chocolate and such... but she doesn't want you, and you keep this and is only annoying her more and more, and she will hate you more and more and you will never go on a date with her because of this...
i would hate if this happened on my clan, and every other clan could hate this too...
maybe you can just meet the requirements from the clan to join? better yet you could meet the requeriments from another clan, because after all of this i don't know, even if you meet the Komrades requierements maybe they will not let you join now...
(sorry Komrades for posting here.. i am only trying to help because i don't like those things too)