Banned? Need help? Listen up.
What not to do and follow:
First off, don't make a thread and start going nuts. Take the matter calmly. No one wants to help and communicate with someone who is complaining and whining.
Second of all, make sure to have all your information. Know why you were banned, who banned you, and where you were banned.
Last off, don't, I repeat, don't lie. The best thing is to come out honestly and admit what you did, if it was true. Your likely going to get another chance, you do so. Realize that things like "My little brother did it" mean nothing to us.
Here is how to appeal your ban, and where to go: http://blacklist.spadille.net
Check here to see if you were banned: http://www.blacklist.spadille.net/
It's better to try and appeal the ban at the server's website, if it has one.
If none of this helps, wait awhile and maybe you'll get lucky. Wont work with all circumstances.